I
was joking with some friends on the way to the beach last weekend about how I
was reading 3 different books at the same time. In all seriousness, I am, but
there are a few that I want to remember:
“THE ANTELOPE IN THE LIVING
ROOM” by Melanie Shankle
As
I have stated on this blog before I love Sophie Hudson, first of all because
she is hilarious, second of all she is from Mississippi, and third, she is a
State fan. (“A Little Salty to Cut the Sweet,” is so
good!) (And she loves to write in parenthesis.) When I saw that she was
recommending the book by Melanie Shankle, “The Antelope in the Living Room,” I
downloaded it immediately (thanks mom for the itunes giftcard you gave me for
Christmas!!). And let me just say, married, not married, dating, or single,
this book is hilarious. She mixes her faith with her funny and throws
everything in between. The story about the actual antelope her husband hung in their living room
was so something that would happen at our house. Great easy read!!! Here are 2
excerpts that I can’t stop thinking about (the first) and laughing about (the
second).
#1
“I think Anne Lamott
said it best in one of my favorite quotes: “I do not at all understand the
mystery of grace—only that it meets us where we are but does not leave us where
it found us.” There’s something about grace that makes us want to do better, be
better, because we know we’ve been given a pardon.”
Yes,
yes, and yes!! Isn’t grace great!
#2
Her
daughter is telling her she can’t be in her club, “because it’s a club for four-year-olds,
and you’re not four.”
And since I am very, very mature and have read many parenting books that are chock-full
of parenting wisdom, I replied, “Well, that’s fine. Daddy and I have our very
own grown-up club.”
Perry (Melanie’s husband) piped up from the living room, “That’s right, it’s called MARRIAGE, and there’s no escape. It’s like
being part of a street gang. You have to die to get out.”
He is hilarious.
I think I relate because this is exactly something Rob would
say. Loved it! A book, as Sophie said, “will have you laughing and crying at
the same time!”
“BUT MAMA ALWAYS PUT
VODKA IN THE SANGRIA” by Julia Reed
When
we were at the beach, we went into the best bookstore ever -- Sundog Books -- in
Seaside, Fla., where Julia Reed has a home. I have loved Julia ever since I
read her first book, “The House on First Street,” about the renovation of her
house in New Orleans after Hurricane Katrina AND I always love her “High and
Low” article in Garden and Gun Magazine.
AND she is (yet again) from Mississippi! Greenville to be exact, which has a
special place in my heart – lots of my favorite people (I even took one of
these people’s last name) hail from this Delta town. I saw this book and
realized it was filled with recipes and picked it up. Julia was also featured
in the November issue (I think) of Southern
Living and I have made her recipe for Roasted Pecans at least three times
now (I crave them and its super easy!). I love all of her stories about growing
up in the Missisippi Delta and her life working as a writer for Newsweek, Vogue, and now Garden and Gun.
Another quick and fun read (that I am keeping in my kitchen). We will certainly
be trying the Roman Steaks, Green Goddess and French dressings (I love a
dressing/sauce), warm field pea and shrimp salad, ooh, and crabmeat bruschetta.
All of these are perfect (and fairly easy) for spring or at the beach!! Hurry
July!! Can’t forget the Black-Eyed Pea Salad, and Judy’s slaw!
Roasted Pecans (from Southern Living
article)
4 cups pecans
¼ cup of butter, melted
½ tsp of kosher salt
½ tsp black pepper
Toss the pecans in
butter. Lay them out flat on a cookie sheet. Bake in oven for 25 minutes at 325
degrees. Turn over ½ way through baking. Remove from oven and sprinkle with
salt and pepper. Devour!!
“THE CIRCLE MAKER” by Mark Batterson
My
sweet friend Alison and I love to talk about books we are reading and a few
weeks ago she mentioned reading “The Circle Maker” and wanted to know if I
wanted to read it, then do a 40-day prayer challenge. So we are currently
reading this book. It teaches us how to draw circles around our prayers and not
to stop until it’s been answered. How many people in the Bible had faith and
drew circle around their prayer requests and God honored their requests. I’m
hoping to finish this weekend! We are meeting for lunch Monday to discuss, set/compare
our life goals (fun and scary at the same time), and get started on the 40-day
prayer challenge. I’m so excited to see what God does with us and how He uses
us during this time!
Frankly,
I could have just highlighted and posted the entire book, but here are just a
few excerpts from what I read today that I don’t want to forget – EVAH (my Luke
was home sick so I got some reading in):
When
talking about the prophet Daniel:
“The thing that impresses me about Daniel
is that he knew his prayers wouldn’t be answered for seventy years, yet he
prayed with a sense of urgency. As a procrastinator, I would have been tempted
to wait until the last week of the sixty-ninth year to even start praying. Not
Daniel. He had the ability to pray with urgency about things”
This
passage it me square in the face because I love to sleep and love to sleep
late:
“We love a good night’s sleep, but
sleepless nights are what define our lives. If you’re going to bring kings to
their knees or shut the mouths of lions, sometimes you need to pull an
all-nighter. I’m more and more convinced
that the biggest difference between success and failure, both spiritually and occupationally,
is your waking-up time on your alarm clock. If you snooze, you lose. But if
you pray through, God will come through as surely as the sun will rise.”
“In the circle of successful living, prayer is
the hub that holds the wheel together. Without our contact with God we are
nothing. With it, we are ‘a little lower
than the angels, crowned with glory and honor.”
“Turn a commute or walk or workout or
meeting into a meaningful spiritual discipline. Though I advise against the
actual shooting motion, it’s a great way to pull the trigger on 1 Timothy 2:1:
“I urge, then, first of all, that petitions, prayers, intercession and
thanksgiving be made for all people.”
What if we stopped reading the news and
started praying for it? What if lunch
meetings turned into prayer meetings? What if we converted every problem, every
opportunity, into a prayer?
Maybe
we’d come a lot closer to our goal: praying without ceasing.”
When the
people marched around Jericho to take the city:
“God said He had already given them the
city, past tense. Do you realize that the victory has already been won? We’re
still waiting for its future tense revelation, but the victory has already been
won by means of the death and resurrection of Jesus Christ. It is finished.
This isn’t just when God made good on grace; it is when God made good on every
promise. Every single one is yes in Christ. Past tense. Present tense. Future
tense. The full revelation won’t happen until His return, the return that
Daniel prophesied, but the victory has
already been won, once and for all, for all time.”
“Destiny is not a mystery. For better or
for worse, your destiny is the result of your daily decisions and defining
decisions.
Daniel made the decision to stop, drop,
and pray three times a day. Those daily
decisions add up. If you make good decisions on a daily basis, it has a
cumulative effect that pays dividends the rest of your life.”
“What I love about Brian is that despite
repeated failures, he kept trying. Most of us quit trying after six circles or
twenty days or two failures. In case you missed the message the first time, if
you keep trying, you are not failing. The only way you can fail is if you quit
trying. If you’re still trying, even if you’re failing, you’re succeeding. God is honored when you don’t give up. God
is honored when you keep trying. God is honored when you keep circling.”
“This is why goal setting is so
important. It creates a category in your reticular activating system, and you
start noticing anything and everything that will help you accomplish the goal.
Prayer is important for the same reason. It sanctifies your RAS so you notice
what God wants you to notice. The more
you pray, the more you notice.”
“Maybe we need to change our prayer
approach from as soon as possible to as
long as it takes”
Can’t
wait to finish “The Circle Maker” and see what God does in this little life of
mine!
Night
night – be back tomorrow for Day 4 of 40…(and praying a circle around this blog
and my 40 day commitment!